To force an update on steam, or attempt to, you can verify your game files. This is done using the following steps:
1) Right-click Nexuiz in your games library and select "properties".
2) On the furthest right tab of the dialogue which appears, there is the option to "verify" game files
3) Click this and any out of date files will be updated after a short checking process.
This will update any files if you haven't already got the update.
The easiest way to check if you have the latest update is to check whether players' pings show up as numbers or as graphs.
If they show up as numbers, then you have the latest version (this was only changed in the latest version. This will not be true in subsequent patches.
Also, the console version is nowhere near the same version as the PC. The PC is a far later patch. A patch for the console version will come after the PC version is fully stable, however i have no idea of an actual date.
Btw, DM mode is a future plan for the game

There is no ETA for this though, as the devs are ensuring that dedicated servers and the netcode are improved upon feedback first.
Thanks for your patience

Ridgewalker:
der patch kommt 11 Mai: Gestern...
du musst dein daten überprüfen.
mein deutsch ist nicht so toll ^^; tut mir leid ^^;